How It Works
Check whether you’re in a rough patch or facing deeper patterns that need attention. It takes about 3 minutes and results are instant—no email or signup required.
Answer quick questions about communication, trust, and repair
See whether issues look situational or persistent
Get one small action and next-step resources tailored to your result
Is My Relationship in Trouble?
A Comprehensive Relationship Health Assessment
Discover Your Relationship's Health
Every relationship has its unique strengths and challenges. This quick assessment helps you understand where your relationship stands and what areas might benefit from attention.
You'll explore key areas like communication, trust, emotional connection, and conflict resolution. Your honest answers will provide valuable insights into your relationship's current health.
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What are the clearest signs a relationship is in trouble (vs. a rough patch)?
Trouble shows up as persistent patterns—criticism, contempt, defensiveness, or withdrawal—occurring weekly for 6+ weeks, little or no repair after conflicts, growing emotional distance, and recurring breaches of trust. A rough patch usually improves with sleep, stress relief, and a few small changes.
What should we do right after we take the quiz?
Try a 20-minute, phone-free check-in:
1. Start soft—“I feel… about… I need…”
2. Each person names one thing to improve this week.
3. Schedule when you’ll review progress (same time next week).
If safety is a concern (emotional or physical), seek professional help immediately.
Does a low score mean we should break up?
No. A low score is a signal, not a sentence. It points to skills to build—repair attempts, emotional attunement, clear boundaries, or rebuilding trust. Many couples improve with structured work (homework + therapy).
What if our results don’t match?
Treat the difference as data. Ask: “What felt accurate to you?” Then agree on one experiment (e.g., a nightly 10-minute connection ritual or a weekly planning meeting) and test it for 2 weeks before re-scoring.