SART Trained Affair Recovery Specialist

Infidelity Therapy
in Colorado

Healing after an affair is possible. Our SART-trained specialist helps couples rebuild trust, process pain, and decide the future of their relationship—together.

SART Trained
Castle Rock + Online
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Free 15-Min Consultation
Best of Best Castle Rock 2024
Best of Best Castle Rock 2025

An Affair Doesn't Have to
End Your Marriage

The discovery of infidelity is one of the most painful experiences a couple can face. The betrayal. The broken trust. The questions that keep you up at night. Right now, everything feels shattered.

But heres the thing most people dont know: research shows that couples who work with a trained affair recovery specialist have significantly better outcomes than those who try to heal on their own—or with a generalist therapist.

With the right support, many couples dont just survive infidelity. They build a relationship that's actually stronger than before.

70%
of couples who complete affair recovery therapy report staying together and improved relationship satisfaction
  • Obsessive thoughts about the affairCan't stop replaying what happened or imagining details

  • Trust is completely brokenEvery text, every late night feels suspicious now

  • Overwhelming guilt or shameWhether betrayed or unfaithful, the emotions are crushing

  • Unsure whether to stay or leaveParalyzed by the biggest decision of your life

  • Arguments that go in circlesThe same painful conversations with no resolution

Why Specialist Care Matters

Not All Therapists Are Trained in Affair Recovery

Infidelity creates a specific type of relational trauma that requires specialized treatment. A generalist therapist—no matter how good—may not have the training to guide you through this.

Our therapist Kayla Crane is one of the few counselors in Colorado trained in SART (Systematic Affair Recovery Training). This evidence-based approach was developed specifically for couples healing from infidelity.

She also completed advanced training in Relational Life Therapy (RLT), which focuses on rebuilding trust and creating genuine intimacy after betrayal.

  • SART Trained (Systematic Affair Recovery Training)
  • Relational Life Therapy (RLT) Trained
  • Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT)
  • Works exclusively with couples—no individual clients
  • LGBTQ+ affirming practice
Kayla Crane, LMFT - SART Trained Affair Recovery Specialist

Kayla Crane, LMFT

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
SART Trained RLT Trained Couples Only
Learn More About Kayla

Seven Milestones of Affair Recovery

Developed by Dr. Talal Alsaleem, SART provides a structured roadmap through the chaos of infidelity toward genuine healing.

1

Setting the Stage for Healing

We establish safety, define what happened, and create the foundation for recovery. This includes agreeing on what infidelity means for your relationship.

2

Getting the Story

The betrayed partner learns the truth about the affair with the right level of disclosure—enough to understand, but guided to avoid re-traumatization.

3

Acknowledging the Impact

Both partners process the emotional fallout. The unfaithful partner fully acknowledges the pain they've caused without defensiveness.

4

Choosing a Path

With clarity about what happened and why, you decide: rebuild the relationship or separate? This decision comes from understanding, not impulse.

5

Creating a Plan of Action

For couples who choose to stay together, we develop concrete steps for rebuilding trust, improving communication, and preventing future betrayal.

6

Implementation & Healing Pains

You put the plan into action. Setbacks are normal—we work through triggers, difficult conversations, and the ongoing process of rebuilding.

7

Sustainability

The relationship is rebuilt on a new, stronger foundation. You have tools to maintain trust and handle challenges that arise in the future.

Types of Infidelity

Affairs come in many forms. We help couples heal from all types of betrayal.

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Physical Affairs

Sexual infidelity with another person, whether a one-time encounter or ongoing relationship.

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Emotional Affairs

Deep emotional connection with someone outside the relationship that crosses boundaries.

📱

Online/Digital Affairs

Inappropriate relationships through apps, social media, or online platforms.

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Serial Infidelity

Pattern of repeated affairs requiring deeper work on underlying issues.

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Workplace Affairs

Relationships that develop with colleagues, often involving ongoing contact.

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Pornography/Sex Addiction

Compulsive sexual behaviors that violate relationship agreements and trust.

What Couples Say After Recovery

"After my husband's affair, I didn't think our marriage could survive. But Kayla guided us through the darkest time of our lives. We've done the hard work, and honestly? Our relationship is stronger now than it ever was before."

"I was the one who had the affair. The guilt was crushing. Kayla helped both of us—my wife process her pain, and me understand why I made that choice. We're still together, still healing, but I have hope again."

"We tried a regular couples counselor first and it made things worse. Kayla actually understood what we were going through. Her SART training made a huge difference—she knew exactly how to help us heal."

Infidelity Therapy Rates

We don't take insurance directly, but many couples get reimbursed through out-of-network benefits. HSA/FSA cards accepted.

60-Minute Session

$215
per session

Good for maintenance sessions after initial intensive work.

120-Minute Session

$430
per session

Extended sessions for couples in acute crisis or with complex situations.

Need accelerated healing? Consider our Couples Counseling Intensives—multiple hours of therapy over 1-2 days.

Infidelity Therapy FAQs

How long does affair recovery take?
Most couples need 10-20 sessions over 4-8 months. Some require longer, especially with complex situations like serial infidelity. Healing isn't linear—expect setbacks, but consistent work leads to lasting change.
What if we're not sure we want to stay together?
That's common—and okay. We also offer discernment counseling specifically designed for couples who are unsure. It helps you gain clarity about your decision without pressure in either direction.
Do both partners need to attend?
For affair recovery to work, both partners need to be involved. However, we may occasionally schedule individual sessions within the course of treatment to address specific issues each person is facing.
Is everything confidential?
Absolutely. We follow strict confidentiality standards. What happens in session stays in session, with the only exceptions being legal requirements like imminent danger. Your privacy is protected.
What's the difference between SART and regular couples therapy?
SART is specifically designed for infidelity—it follows a structured protocol that addresses the unique trauma of betrayal. Regular couples therapy may actually make things worse if the therapist isn't trained in affair recovery.
Can we do online sessions?
Yes! We offer secure video sessions for couples throughout Colorado. Many couples actually prefer the privacy and convenience of meeting from home. Learn more about online therapy.

Have more questions? Visit our complete FAQ page or book a free consultation to talk with us directly.

Infidelity Therapy Near You

In-person sessions in Castle Rock or online therapy throughout Colorado.

Healing After Infidelity
Is Possible

You don't have to face this alone. Take the first step toward rebuilding trust and deciding the future of your relationship.

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