Opening Your Relationship Safely: A Guided ENM Workbook for Couples

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Explore ethical non-monogamy with clarity and care. This 20-page, therapist-crafted workbook walks you step-by-step through motivations, readiness, boundaries, safety protocols, and ongoing check-ins—so you can move at a pace that protects your connection while honoring your curiosity. Inside you’ll find plain-language explanations, fillable prompts, conversation scripts, and a formal agreement template you can revisit as your relationship evolves.

What’s Inside (exercises & tools)

  • Motivation Assessment & reflection prompts

  • Relationship Readiness Assessment (communication, trust, conflict, security)

  • Individual Readiness Checklist (jealousy management, needs, boundaries)

  • Relationship Structures Mini-Map (open, polyamory, swinging, monogamish, RA)

  • Hierarchy Preferences worksheet

  • Essential Communication Scripts (starter, concerns, boundaries, date debrief, jealousy)

  • Boundaries & Agreements Worksheet (physical, emotional, time/resources)

  • Safety Protocols & Risk Plan (sexual health, emotional safety, privacy/discretion, red flags)

  • Our Relationship Agreement template (values, rules, reviews, repair plan)

  • Jealousy Management Toolkit (triggers, 5-step coping, reframes, reassurance script)

  • Weekly Relationship Check-In template

  • Action Plan + Resource list

Explore ethical non-monogamy with clarity and care. This 20-page, therapist-crafted workbook walks you step-by-step through motivations, readiness, boundaries, safety protocols, and ongoing check-ins—so you can move at a pace that protects your connection while honoring your curiosity. Inside you’ll find plain-language explanations, fillable prompts, conversation scripts, and a formal agreement template you can revisit as your relationship evolves.

What’s Inside (exercises & tools)

  • Motivation Assessment & reflection prompts

  • Relationship Readiness Assessment (communication, trust, conflict, security)

  • Individual Readiness Checklist (jealousy management, needs, boundaries)

  • Relationship Structures Mini-Map (open, polyamory, swinging, monogamish, RA)

  • Hierarchy Preferences worksheet

  • Essential Communication Scripts (starter, concerns, boundaries, date debrief, jealousy)

  • Boundaries & Agreements Worksheet (physical, emotional, time/resources)

  • Safety Protocols & Risk Plan (sexual health, emotional safety, privacy/discretion, red flags)

  • Our Relationship Agreement template (values, rules, reviews, repair plan)

  • Jealousy Management Toolkit (triggers, 5-step coping, reframes, reassurance script)

  • Weekly Relationship Check-In template

  • Action Plan + Resource list