Infidelity Counseling & Affair Recovery Near Greenwood Village, CO

You Just Found Out. Now What?

If you're reading this from your car in a Greenwood Village parking lot or hiding in your bathroom at home, you're probably in shock. Maybe you found texts. Maybe they confessed. Maybe you've known for weeks but didn't want to believe it.

Here's what most couples don't know: the days and weeks right after discovering infidelity are when you need help the most. But they're also when most couples make decisions they regret later - either staying without addressing the real issues, or leaving before giving recovery a real chance.

That's why infidelity therapy with a trained specialist matters. And why couples from Greenwood Village, Centennial, and Highlands Ranch make the short drive to Castle Rock to work with Kayla.

Why Greenwood Village Couples Choose Castle Rock for Affair Recovery

Look, Greenwood Village has plenty of therapists. You could probably find someone within 10 minutes of your house. But here's the thing most people don't realize until they've wasted months with the wrong therapist:

Most couples therapists aren't trained in infidelity recovery.

They took a weekend workshop on relationships and now they see couples once or twice a week between their depression and anxiety clients. They mean well, but they don't have the specific training to help couples navigate the unique trauma that comes with betrayal.

Kayla Crane is different. She doesn't work with individuals who are depressed or anxious. She doesn't do family therapy or teen counseling on the side. She works exclusively with couples - and specifically, couples dealing with infidelity and broken trust.

She's trained in SART (Systematic Affair Recovery Training), which is one of the most respected affair recovery methods. She's also trained in Relational Life Therapy, which helps couples understand the patterns that led to the affair in the first place.

The 25-minute drive from Greenwood Village to Castle Rock means you're getting a specialist, not someone who does couples therapy as a side gig.

What Makes Affair Recovery Different Than Regular Couples Therapy

Regular couples therapy focuses on communication and conflict resolution. That's fine if you're arguing about chores or parenting styles.

But infidelity is different. It's trauma. The betrayed partner often has symptoms similar to PTSD - intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, checking their partner's phone obsessively. The partner who had the affair often feels so much shame they either shut down completely or get defensive.

Regular couples therapy doesn't know what to do with this. Therapists without infidelity training often:

• Rush you to "forgive and move on" before you've processed what happened
• Tell you to stop asking questions because "dwelling on the past won't help"
• Make the betrayed partner feel crazy for having trust issues
• Focus on "what was wrong in the relationship" instead of addressing the betrayal first
• Treat both partners like they're equally responsible for the affair

This makes things worse, not better.

Kayla's SART training means she knows exactly what needs to happen in each phase of recovery. She knows when to focus on the betrayed partner's healing, when to help the unfaithful partner understand the impact of their choices, and when to start rebuilding the relationship.

The Real Questions Greenwood Village Couples Ask About Infidelity Therapy

"Can our marriage survive this?"
Honest answer: Some do, some don't. But couples who work with a specialist trained in affair recovery have a much better chance. Kayla won't tell you what to do - stay or leave - but she'll help you make that decision from a clear place instead of from panic or fear.

"How long until I trust them again?"
Usually 12-18 months if both partners do the work. That sounds like forever when you're in pain right now, but it's actually realistic. Anyone who promises you'll feel better in a few weeks is lying. Rebuilding trust takes time, but it does happen.

"What if they cheat again?"
That's the fear that keeps you up at night. The truth is, you can't control what they do. But you can learn to see the red flags you missed before. You can learn what real accountability looks like. And you can learn to trust yourself to handle it if it happens again.

"Will we have to talk about the affair every session?"
Not forever. Early on, yes - you need to understand what happened and why. But once you've processed the betrayal, therapy shifts to rebuilding your relationship and making sure the problems that created vulnerability don't come back.